How to overcome your regret?

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By flurish

If you feel low and gloomy just beacuse you made a mistake and now you regret, Please dont! Life is too short to be living in a regret.

Just relax and read out what I am about to write here. Who do you think you are? A human, right? So do you even know who make mistakes? well again the answer is "human".

It does not matter if you have a bitter past full of mistakes that keeps bothering you all the time and force you hard to believe that you are a bad person, you know what, you can change this feeling.

Accept your mistakes and seek for an apology. Remember the rule, "it's better to be late than never." Oh wait! Now you are not a bad person anymore since you have realized your mistakes and planned to apologize. Believe me this is the toughest job so far. Congrats! You are on the right track.

Come on! Throw away the negativity out of the window because being pessimistic won't help you out with anything, however, it will cause you more trouble and make you discontent. Once something has be done there is no chance of rectifiying it but of course, you can do something good to feel better. Hopefully, it will help you to be content in yourself. Moreover, You can try different alternative ways to light-heart yourslef.

Some of them are as follows:

1.Hangout with a bunch of freinds to your favourite restaurant

2.Spend time with your family

3.Watch a new show on television

4.Start reading an interesting book

5.Join an extra class at school or university

6.Try to recall good memories

7.Visit your relative or an old friend living abroad

8.Seek counseling or talk to somebody you trust. Perhaps, a close friend, hug them and cry for once and all.

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The nitty gritty is to avoid being alone. Time for Cretain will heal all your pains and eventually you will get over your regret. Therefore, patience and positivity is the key to the door of contentment. Once you get back to routine, you will feel much better.

Laser in on your activities only and be good around. I am sure your hard work will conquer because you are out of those amazing people who have a heart and a mind to understand the person they had victimized intentionally or unintentionally. You are valiant to go and make an apology. Remember there is no going back so walk ahead with high spirits and optimism. Life is about winning a few, losing a few. Try to win more than you lose.

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stars439 Level 7 Commenter 23 months ago

Great ideas. God Bless You.

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flurish Hub Author 22 months ago

thank star439

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